I left an abusive husband three years ago. He managed to belittle and mock every part of my body, leaving me with very little sexual confidence — not that I ever had.
The boyfriends I've had since I've driven insane, having good sex only in the dark or when drunk. I stranges show my body in daylight.
In fact, I judge li,e if they compliment me and look down on them for having such low standards. I'm supposedly frigid, but now have a sexual relationship with i like sex with strangers I met online, with whom I doubt there is any long-term potential but I like having "grubby" sex with him — in the dark.
My friends are confused that I have held back sexually with long-term boyfriends but can sleep with an almost stranger. Am I like a man who likes sleeping with strangsrs
I like sex with strangers
You are not "frigid" but your negative image of your physical self is affecting your ability to enjoy intimacy strangees anyone you care.
Try the following exercise: Which of these were implanted by your ex-husband, and which pre-dated him?
Then write a long letter to your body, accentuating the sex amersfoort ways it has helped you — maintained health or athleticism, saved you i like sex with strangers falling.
Apologise for mistreating it, undervaluing it, being ashamed of it, and vow to protect, value, trust and nurture straangers in future. If you do this sincerely it should be cathartic, but healing.
When you love your own body, and find it sexy, others will. Topics Sex Sexual healing.
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