A reader asks wrote in: I'm 18, and I'm not sure if I am lesbian or bisexual.
I know that I am not straight. I always have been attracted to other girls, though I didn't always recognize it.
I've also liked guys in the past though -- or thought I did. So my question, I guess, is whether it's still possible for me to be gay. Yes, of course, you can still be a lesbian if you've had crushes on guys in the past.
You can be a lesbian if you've had relationships with men in the past. Perhaps this will help you define yourself:. You like women.
When you look to the future, you see yourself with women. You want to have sex with womenbuild a life with a woman, have relationships with women.
You may or may not have had crushes or lsebian with men in the past. You may or may not have relationships with women in the past.
You like both men and women. You are sexually attracted to both men and women.
You have crushes on both men and women. When you look to the future, you can see your self with either a man or a woman.
You want to have sex with women and men, build a life with a woman or a man, have relationships with both men and women. Updated September 24, Perhaps this will help you define yourself: Continue Reading.